Lovetraction Lines Review The
question, "How can I get more love in my life?" is itself
part of the problem, because this question assumes that you don't
have enough love right now and that you have to do something to get
it. It also assumes that love is something you get from other people.
If you believe these assumptions, you will get busy trying to do
something to get love, and you will be doing those things from a
sense of lack, which is not particularly attractive. When you believe
you lack love, you create a sense of lack within yourself, and that
sense of lack becomes somewhat of a self-fulfilling prophesy, as
people sense that you want something from them.
When
we are looking to get something from people, even love, it is coming
from the ego, which is a place of self-centeredness, tension, and
discontentment: "What can you do for me?" Other egos are
also looking for what someone else can do for them. Those who are
looking for something or someone to fulfill them from the outside are
not likely to find it, not only because other people don't
necessarily want to fill that role, but also, more importantly,
because we can never get enough love from outside ourselves to
fulfill the ego's feeling of lack.
The
only solution to wanting more love is realizing the truth about love:
It is your nature to love, and you have an unlimited supply of it.
But you must choose to activate this supply of love by giving it to
someone else. The way to get more love is to activate your own
capacity to love. When loving is flowing out of us to others, we
experience love. Love doesn't come from others. This is apparent at
those times when someone is in love with us, but we aren't in love
with him or her. Someone loving us isn't enough to get us to feel
love. Love isn't something someone can give us. What we really want
is to feel the love we have inside ourselves. The source of love is
inside of us, and we feel love when we choose to give it.
We
are used to thinking of love as an emotion, a feeling that sweeps
over us, like when we fall in love. Falling in love is the most
wonderful feeling, and yet, the feeling of falling in love isn't true
love, and it doesn't last. We long for that feeling to be our ongoing
experience, but it can't be. Falling in love is a feeling that comes
and eventually goes. True love is not so much a feeling as a doing.
It is an act of acceptance, openness, kindness, receptivity to
another. We experience love as a result of being open and attentive
to and accepting of whomever is in front of us.
Love
also flows when we are simply open to and accepting of life and
whatever experience we are having. Love flows from us (and is
experienced by us) whenever we are fully present and accepting of how
life is showing up right now, whether a person is showing up in the
moment or not. Love flows whenever we aren't complaining about life,
wanting something different, or judging and evaluating whatever is
going on.
Love
is our natural state. It is the state we drop into whenever we are
simply saying yes to how life is showing up in the moment. The only
thing that can interfere with this yes is the mind saying no to life.
So the only thing that can interfere with love is a thought! No
person or circumstance can interfere with your ability to feel love
unless you allow it to. And no person can make you feel love unless
you allow it either. The really good news is that love is a
possibility in every moment. It is in our control. It is our choice:
We can choose to love http://www.getresponse.com/archive/realrreview/Lovetraction-Lines-Review-Does-It-Work-Free-PDF-Download-160644301.html whatever and whomever we are experiencing or
not.
Our
default position as humans seems to be to reject and find fault with
our experience and with the people we encounter. But that doesn't
have to be our response to life. We have the power to ignore the
judgments and negativity of our minds and to open our hearts in
acceptance to whatever happens to be showing up in our life. When we
do that, we discover that there is no shortage of love. When we are
very present in the moment to whatever experience we are having,
instead of involved in our thoughts about life, love flows outward
from within us to whatever and whomever we are experiencing. We also
find that love from others is the natural response to this outward
flow. But the love that is returned to us is not the source of our
love, as nice as their love might be.
You
are the source of love, and you have the power to feel love. In any
moment, you can choose love instead of following your train of
thoughts about what you want and how you'd like things to be. You are
the creator of your experience of life because you can choose how you
respond to life. We may not be able to control what comes our way and
whether we are in a relationship with someone at a particular time.
But we can control how we choose to see and respond to whatever life
brings us. Once we learn that we are masters of our experience in
this way, life can be full of love whether we have someone special
giving us love back or not.
Gina
Lake is a spiritual teacher who is devoted to helping others awaken
and live in the moment through her books, online courses, and
intensives. She is the author of eight books, including Loving in the
Moment, Embracing the Now, Radical Happiness, Living in the Now,
Return to Essence, What About Now? Anatomy of Desire, and Getting
Free. The focus of her writing and teaching is on helping people be
in the present moment and live the happy and fulfilled life that is
possible and on shedding light on the programming that interferes
with awakening to one's true nature. She is also a gifted intuitive
with a master's degree in counseling psychology and over twenty years
experience supporting people in their spiritual growth. Her website
offers information about her books, free e-books, book excerpts, a
monthly newsletter, a blog, and audio and video recordings.
